Yesterday I think his legs were sore where the shots went in. He was nearly inconsolable. I spent most of the day holding him, hugging him, soothing him. In return he mostly cried, but eh, what can you do?
Today he seems to be running a low-grade fever although at one point I got worried because he was crying and was extremely sweaty. But that seems to have passed now and I know that fevers are a side effect of vaccinations.
Hi Everyone!!!
On the positive side, he seems to be very sleepy today and he's been napping like a champ so far today. So much so that I realized I did 3 truly remarkable things today that I would like to categorize under the heading of "New Moms Accomplishments List."
- I showered!!!! BONUS POINT - I dried and straightened my hair!
- I put on REAL CLOTHES!!!! (As in jeans and a shirt - usually I just walk around in sweatpants and whatever shirt I slept in.)
- I ate breakfast AND lunch!!! (Granted it was cereal for breakfast and soup and chips for lunch, but both occurred before 1:30 p.m.) - BONUS POINT: I also washed my dishes!!!!
- I put a load of laundry in the wash!!!!
What's that?? You do all of those things every single day? Usually in a matter of 60 minutes or less?
Yeah, I know. I used to too. But with a newborn, everything changes and I find myself skipping the general everyday "me" care items in order to tend to baby care things. That means that most days I don't get dressed, don't eat well (if at all before 2 p.m.), and I almost never find time to shower. If I get in three showers a week I feel really good about myself. Don't worry, I'm not disgustingly greasy or sweaty or anything like that. I spend 95% of my time at home doing nothing more than baby care and the occasional bit of housework. Trust me, I am not getting particularly dirty.
I guess it's about time I get these simply day-to-day personal hygiene and health tasks under control. After all, I go back to work in just over two weeks now, and EH starts his first "transition" day at daycare on Tuesday. As in NEXT WEEK! I am not kidding when I say that every time I think about having to drop him off at day care for his first full day I tear up, and I am not usually a particularly emotional or teary person.
I have no idea what my "accomplishments" list is going to look like once I have to go back to work. Seriously, you mean I have to shower, dress myself, eat, do laundry, spend time with the kid, cook dinner for DH AND somehow spend 10 hours a day at work????
Right now it seems completely and utterly impossible.
2 comments:
Try to think of it this way. In 3 wks you'll be able to add, "was a fully functioning adult," and "contributed to society" to that list. ;)
It's amazing how FAST you forget what life with a newborn is like! Now, everytime I read your blog I think this will be my life in a few short months--but I'll also have a 3 year old! This pregnancy is FLYING, I can't believe it! I know I will be so thankful that I can accomplish this things you have accomplished :) Keep up the good work!!
Emily :)
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